This Is Me

Hi there. It’s been a while. I don’t like to write just to write and I haven’t had much to say that you haven’t heard, so I took a break. Now I’m ready to share part 2 of my story.

At this time last year, I was well into my adventure of a lifetime – my cross country cycling trip, raising funds for Multiple Sclerosis research. This year, I am continuing a different kind of journey. If you read part 1 of my story, you know that I worked hard over the last few years to recover my fitness levels of long ago. I’ve engaged in many hours of cycling, running and other cross training activities as well as making better nutritional choices. Kick starting all of that was a trip to the dentist. For my own very good reasons, I had not seen a dentist in over 40 years. You can imagine the level of periodontal disease that developed as a result of that choice. The fix ended up being the removal of all my teeth – March 6, 2014. I actually refer to that date as my second birthday because I believe my dentist literally saved my life and gave me back my “joie de vivre”. I no longer have my original teeth, but I do have my smile (and health) back!

This year, since I had no chosen events to train for, I decided to heed my dentist’s advice and take steps to prevent future bone loss of the jaw (something that typically happens over time when you don’t have the teeth roots stimulating bone growth). That meant implants for my upper jaw to help preserve the bone. I finished that process for my lower jaw prior to my epic ride. In order to place implants in my upper jaw, however, I had to first have some extensive bone grafting. I had already lost a significant amount of bone to resorption starting even prior to the teeth extractions. So, in February, I started the long process. I had bilateral horizontal ridge and sinus lift augmentations done through two separate procedures. There had to be a period of at least six weeks before any denture could be worn again. It turned out to be fourteen weeks for me because we chose to do the surgeries back to back. Fourteen weeks without upper teeth!

Last year, my ride showed me that there is still good in humanity. I had someone find and return my ID/cash pack. I had people donate to the cause. I had people looking out for my safety, offering food and water, and giving shelter in a storm. And I met wonderful, supportive teams of people who are part of the LCC K-9 Comfort Dog ministry all across the country.Image 2018-06-05_17-00-54-447

This year, my dental adventure has shown me the same. I was worried about going to work (I have a very public job) and being seen outside my home without teeth. But once any bruising from the procedure went away, back to work went I.

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I don’t know what I was so worried about. No person over that time ever made me feel the least bit uncomfortable. If there was any conversation about it at all, it was more interest in the procedures themselves and the healing involved. No one snickered. No one looked aghast. No one pushed me to do anything if I showed any trepidation about it without question or judgement. I even met a large number of new people (hundreds). I am part of the LCC K9-Comfort Dog Ministry with Team Aaron Comfort Dog and deployed to speak and share the ministry at other congregations and schools, attended events and a large conference, and met with other teams at a regional gathering. I rode in a couple of large cycling events. And when I ate out at restaurants, no waiter or waitress ever had issue with my soft diet requests or substitutions. It turns out the only person who was concerned about being out and about with no upper teeth was me. Every other person I encountered was kind and supportive.

I do have my upper teeth back now. I smile again with abandon and it feels great! I’m back cycling and running and working on my next goals/adventures. Stay tuned as I figure them out. And later this year, after 6-8 months of healing, I’ll have the implants placed. I’ll be without teeth for a short time again, but I’m not worried!Image 2018-06-05_16-45-35-323

Lessons learned:

1- There are a whole lot of good humans out there!

2- Even without teeth, you can eat just about anything – blenders/hand blenders are great!

3- Everyone has something going on. They won’t judge you for yours.

4- Having oral surgery and being without teeth is a minor inconvenience. Cancer, heart disease, MS, ALS, strokes and clinical depression among others are real struggles.

5- Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable. God and people around you will lift you up.

6- Dr. J is my hero! Dr. V isn’t so bad either!

Song of the day:

Ride on!

14 thoughts on “This Is Me”

  1. Thank you for posting this. I just had a bone graft on my lower right side in May and will receive the implant in August. Then in September I will have the upper left side done with the sinus lift. I have been told it will be 9 months before I receive the implants. Your post made me realize that I can do this and it won’t be as bad as I think it will. Now, I just hope I don’t have another reaction to some of the materials as I ended up having 2 bone grafts on the right side due to the reaction.

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    1. You’re welcome! I am lucky to have a wonderful dentist and periodontist. I had very little discomfort after any of their procedures. Hopefully you won’t have another reaction and things will go well. Good luck!


  2. Why didn’t I even notice this?! Michele, your light shines with or without teeth!! 😍 And I’m happy to be reading your blogs again!!

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  3. Ok…so reading this just made me cry! We are all so proud of you and all the good you do. And you have always made everyone smile and laugh… It’s just who you are, thankfully. We have to have someone like that in the family. 🙂 We all have insecurities ( I have too many to count!) but I am so glad you were able to overcome yours to take the journey and make this wonderful, long-needed change. Keep doing what you do, and being who you are. You are an inspiration to me and I am sure to many others. And yes, we all have our journeys, but none is any worse than another. It’s the way we handle them that defines us. As I am always telling the boys, “Make your own happy!”. I am so glad that you are finally doing that!!!!

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  4. You inspire me ! I have known you from the time our children started at St .John’s and have always admired your loving ,giving spirit. Now look at us ?Where has the time gone?Look at you…you don’t let anything stop you once you put your mind to it…I see God working through you and into my life and others..I feel blessed that you have shared all of this with all of us! This journey is amazing!You are amazing! Continue to share as we never know how it will impact others..

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